2007.12.13
Nice Guys Part 2: Hi! I'm too pussy to realize I'm an idiot!
The "Too fucking retarded to notice my heart got smashed into pieces" syndrome
So yes I've been sitting down thinking for quite a while with my hand on my chin in a "I AM THINK" manner. I've noticed that when guys leave a girl for another girl they'll slam the door in their faces. "No I don't want you bitch - I left you for this other girl." And they're blunt. They won't leave women hanging. They'll let the woman know straight up that yes your ass just got dumped and it's time for you to pack your bags and find another guy to call your beau. Either that or become lesbian because guys are assholes.
But when it comes to girls doing that shit? Oh they're fucking pathetic. They try to make everything justified. Worst of all?
They'll try to be friends with the guy they just dumped for another guy.
Now no, before you nice guys applaud me let me say "Fuck you - get a brain" before you tell me of all your sob stories about how women did that to you.
Once again when a guy leaves a girl for another woman they're blunt. But with women they try to make themselves come off justified in every manner possible when you know damn well they're wrong.
Is it really okay to hear: "OH HEY LOVE - I just fucked your best friend and actually we've been hitting it off well for the past three months. I just never told you. ...So I'm just wondering if it's okay for us to JUST BE friends."
Yes that's right. Your woman just disregarded all that time you've been together. She just threw away the relationship like it was nothing. Most of all YES SHE'S ASKING YOU TO JUST BE FRIENDS.
Wait, up until now you were her boyfriend - her LOVER. Why the hell does she want to be your friend now?
Women fucking sugarcoat.
It means SHE JUST DUMPED YOUR ASS FOO'.
By being an idiotic bitch she thinks you won't be hurt as much if she still talks to you and keeps in communication with you AS FRIENDS. But don't lie, you know how fucked up that is. With men they'll just simply break up. No if's, and's, or but's. With women there's always if's, and's, or but's.
Sadly since I see this happen so much...I see the guys that just got dumped CONTINUE to be friends with these women like nothing happened. I HAVE THESE MEN BITCHING TO ME ABOUT IT. It's irritating. I hate nice guys and how they try to make me pity them. I'm not your fucking mother. I won't pity you. But I'll give you realistic advice.
As a person should you really be taking that kind of abuse? The "I still care about you deeply AS A FRIEND." Are you really going to consider someone that tore your heart out and ran it over without giving two shits A FRIEND back? If you say "yes" then that's your own damn problem. Don't even try looking for comfort. You're just letting yourself be torn apart. You know damn well you can't quickly adjust to those mixed feelings. That one person you once used to hug and kiss as a lover is now off limits without any warning beforehand. She's happy and you're fucking miserable. But since you're a fool you still speak highly of her just blocking out the truth.
HAVE YOU NO FUCKING SHAME to still hang around and be friends with the girl who just "broke your heart." It's not being "nice." It's being a flaming idiot. It's ONLY acceptable if your woman left you for a girl because she realized she plays for the other team instead. Now me - I'm a prideful shit. I have too much pride to hang around that shit. Really. Look at yourself. You're hanging out with the girl that just dumped your sorry ass for another guy. And instead of slamming the door in her face since she already burned the bridge that lead towards you I instead ALWAYS see these fucking guys doing the exact opposite instead.
Oh...that girl who just broke my heart and turned my world upside down and completely disregarded all my feelings and our relationship like it was completely meaningless still wants to be friends with me because she still cares about me? ...Okay. I guess I'll accept. Because I still love her too. Yes I'm a fool and still love her romantically and she only loves me but is not IN LOVE with me but I guess the world isn't fair. I'll continue to be friends with this girl who was once attainable but now unattainable. Maybe love wasn't meant for me. But I can't let her go even though she dumped my ass and made a complete fool out of myself. I love her, and love hurts.
Love hurts if you're Alucard and Integral Hellsing. But should love really hurt when your pining over your ex who shred you to pieces by dumping you for another guy when there's tons of better looking girls out there. Not just that, but hey, maybe if you look hard enough you JUST MIGHT find a woman who doesn't sugarcoat every damn thing she comes across and JUST MIGHT actually give a shit about you and only you.
Really, hanging around with your fucking ex that dumped you is nothing more than an insult.
"OH YOU FUCKING BITCH! HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT ABOUT MY EX! SHE'S SMART! BEAUTIFUL! I KNOW WE'RE ONLY FRIENDS NOW BUT SHE'S MY WHOLE WORLD!"
Is she smart because she left you - a guy who genuinely gives a fuck about her and would probably even gladly give up an arm or leg for her sake? Or is she smart because she dumped you - a guy who acts like he doesn't even have a fucking dick by pining over what's not his anymore?
I'm fucking sick of this shit and I've seen it happen way too many times.
You guys need to remember who has the fucking balls. You need to remember who was born with a fucking penis.
I recall once when this one girl did that to this guy he was angry, pissed beyond all recognition. And she told him "Don't cry for me." Did I tell you she dumped him for another guy? There's this guy here just standing around pitying himself wondering what the fuck is wrong with him. Why did she leave me? What's so good about him? And I was just being the spectator to this event thinking to myself:
"Man that bitch is ugly. DO YOU EVEN KNOW HOW MANY STDs SHE MIGHT HAVE?"
Because yes as usual, I've pretty much always been the girl never written about in history books. The spectator, the "friend", the "other girl out there who's not fucked in the head and actually has a brain and doesn't sugar coat but we don't go for her because we just want something to bitch about."
I've seen this shit happen so many times. Usually I know the end before it happens. The idiotic guy will tell me when he hooks up with his dumbass GF "Oh Mika, you don't understand because you've never been in love yet!" then some months pass by, possibly a year or so... "MIKA! I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE DUMPED ME! But we're still friends though... She's in love with this other guy now even though she ALWAYS said she was in love with me. HOW THE FUCK CAN SHE ACT LIKE OUR LOVE NEVER EXISTED! I KNOW WE WERE IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER!"
You can be a pansy ass bitch and moan over that ex for the rest of your fucking life. And honestly, if you're going to waste your life pining over some dumbass you might as well fucking hang yourself - you seriously don't got shit to live for then.
Don't get me wrong. I've had that shit happen to me before. Except since a guy did it there was no "Let's be frendz" bullshit in between. He was smart and cut me off completely. It hurt. I was an idiot and I whined for about three fucking years I think. Then one day I woke up and was like "Hey wait a fucking second... YOU HAVE GOT TO BE SHITTING ME. I DID NOT JUST WASTE THREE YEARS OF MY FUCKING LIFE MOANING OVER SOME DUMBASS." But really, I'm the true idiot because here I was wasting my life moaning over some fucktard who I'm basically nothing to right now while he was out fucking around and having a good time while I was lamenting over the past.
Oh and I know this rant sounds dominantly angry and negative. But think about it. It's positive. In a "the truth is ugly" way.
Stop bitching about your ex's that tore you apart and move the fuck on.
Most of all if they pull that "wetz be fwendz" shit - just cut off that bridge they're trying to climb back on. You won't see me running back to that guy that I bitched over for three years. Will I try being friends with him again? Hell no. Not because I was hurt. But there's no reason for us to be friends. Our chapter is over with. I don't hold on to shit that's already gone.
LIVE AND LET SHIT DIE.
Most of all - if your ex fucking dumped your ass like you meant nothing - she burnt that fucking bridge. Realistically there is no if's and's or but's when it comes to that. You're a fucking idiot if you keep holding on to that "lez b fwendz" bullshit. It's just a defense mechanism for women.
"See I just dumped my boyfriend for another guy but I still want to be friends! I'M NOT A HORRIBLE PERSON!"
Really. What the hell. Would someone who actually has a brain that functions think like that?